How to recover from the collapse of the relationship

Of all the painful experience, there is little that I can imagine that are greater than the pain that develops from the beloved. In my life I have had 2 major relationship break-ups "luck". I'm lucky, because these experiences I provides the largest and most experiential learning that someone interested in (through the pain, which may have had to endure.) I came to learn that every relationship, lifelong or temporary is the God of the assignment. He sent me for my learning.
Grieving-losing the relationship is a loss. Although no grief process is typical, it is important to recognize and process 5 phases. You can lead to long-lasting sense of confusion and inhibit your ability to move forward. The five stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.
Letting go to forgive-forgiveness is the miracles of things. This is often seen as difficult because people tend to misunderstand the forgiveness. It's not about another person, it's about the release of mental disorders, which may cause pain in the you. Sit down with pen and paper journal my feelings, good and bad. With the Declaration of forgiveness. Declaration of pardons does not condone any conduct that was disrespectful or inappropriate. However, to regain power in stop you guarantee situation in mind, we suffer. We were hurt and betrayed in the past, but we want to stop, he carried the cross.
Atone for part of the-owning a gun and you will protect you against the protruding or transferring the blame. The resurrection is guaranteed to follow.
Pray for healing-it's time for the orientation. Whatever your faith, ask for a miracle. In response to your question, pray for healing in your mind. Ask God for the treatment of your mind that believes I'm separated from love. Pain of the break is in part because of mis-identification with the relationship as who you are, but it is an error that needs correction. Are you a complete and whole, as it was before the relationship when they (and before you were born) and will be for all eternity.
Be careful on his thoughts-ego mind thrive in the belief that you are separate and without love. It will be lecturing the craziest things in my head. It may say things like, "I can't go, I'm afraid to be alone, I failed, I can't live without it, no one will ever love me", and so on. These ideas were cut off from the reality of peace and joy, you are looking for. Be wary and identify. Accept only ideas that spread the love.
Take care of yourself-get a good dinner. Touch the old friends. Do what you always wanted to do. My life again, as you want. It's a new chapter, how you read it? It won't be long before you look back at this moment as a key period of growth and appreciation for what you've learned.
Peace and joy are your own transport, suffering is optional. Discover the peace and joy, it's yours. If you are inspired by the spiritual growth and development to visit me at http://www.craigvillarrubia.com/. On the Web you can find free articles, video, and podcasts, which serves as a means of spiritual enlightenment. You can also be with me on Facebook daily rates and updates on http://www.facebook.com/craigvillarrubia.

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