"I blame on the economy," growling domineering Al Goodwin, crumbling in the bar after a long day on the site of its Seattle, Washington. Rugged 52-year-old master runs no wounds, complains about the other growing irony: former friends who Cohabitate.
Since the collapse of the American economy, many divorced couples, deemed necessary to continue to share of the mortgage. Recession, layoffs and "is just plain poor are practically unable to move. And what if I am? " Al requires. "In the world where I am? I'm in the House under the water and would suffocate under more debt and more damage to my child's financial future. "Los Angeles, on the basis of a marriage therapist, Cindy McCorkran, LMFT, agrees that it makes more financial damage would resolve the crisis."If you have two people who doctor, what's wrong with? If you are in the same boat together is more willing to harmonise both their assets if they are on the line. "
The Children?
There is a reasonable expectation that someone will move sometime during the divorce and if both parents are divorced but still live together? "That's a lot to explain," agrees Louis Cavanaugh, Ph.d., a specialist in Las Vegas. ": You break the inevitable news and boom! You two are still share the same roof. It's definitely the children if they are not old or sufficiently understand adults. It's somewhat annoying, at least, in the first and foremost, your children, getting divorced but financial impact can be devastating. If you'll figure it out, so as soon as possible on the legs that can help you on your children. "
Financial consequences
The phenomenon of former friends who cohabitate is relatively recently. However, it may be in the unification of the former combative cohort. For example, if you are under the gun to share premises and, at least do it with the proverbial devil you know. Now that you have very little choice: it's when you move home with your parents with his tail between his legs.
Reconciliation is a potential result?
The jury at that. "But divorced cohabitants, contemplating reconciliation whereas that managed to survive this kind of storm. A special way, brought the domineering people to a better understanding, "says Cindy.
Kristina Diener, FAAETS, SAP, PsyD, is a clinical psychologist specializing in trauma relating to divorce and assault. Kristina, visit kdienerpsyd@pacbell.net or http://www.kristinadiener.com/.
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